Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Well Wishes From mlharrower

Dear Irene, Dave, and family,
  Be assured of our continual prayers for all of you. May our compassionate Lord surround you with His tender love and care.
Love,
Mari and Ken

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Update From Dave

Greetings all….!!!!

We’re very encouraged after a successful procedure installing the tesio catheter.  Yeah! 

Irene is resting comfortably and looking forward to the next step of beginning the chemotherapy.  We’re still unsure as to when that will occur….

In the meantime…

Thank you for the strong support of blood banking on behalf of Irene’s immediate need.  Please see the “Donate Blood for Irene” for additional information! It’s really not that bad!  I’ve been donating blood for over 25 years… although Gary Daichendt told me that next time he’ll bring flowers instead!!!!  smile smile

We are learning that this process is a marathon and not a sprint… Irene has a long road ahead but is very encouraged by God’s grace and love expressed through the outpouring of so many…!!!!  Thank you sooooooo much!!!!!!!!!

Tomorrow is hopefully a rest and recovery day.  I am the FOOD POLICE… making sure that she gets “bulked” up for the next phase…

Take a look at these photos and rejoice with us. Who else could smile in the face of such adversity but those who know that “our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us (Romans 8:18)”?

Cathy and Gary Daichendt with Jocelyn, Irene and Dave

Phyllis and Jack Cauwels with Irene

Brother George and his son George with Irene

Trusting and trudging ahead, one day at a time… and sometimes, one moment at a time,
Dave

Well Wishes From Craig Miner

Dave and Irene,

Please know that Ali and I are praying for you and your family. This is wonderful to share your faith and courage in such a dynamic way. Manning’s words have been powerful in my life too. I love how he writes about the here and now and plays on the concept of nowhere. If we do not ruthlessly focus our faith on what is here, now; then we are nowhere. Thank you for building us up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.

Craig

Well Wishes From Jane Smalley

Tia Rini, I just wanted to let you know that you are in mine and my kids’ thoughts and prayers. I sent out a prayer request at my church for you and they all wish you well. I truly believe God hears His people. I catch myself often asking God,“Why God?” But then I remember Isa.49:23 “Anyone who trusts in Me will not be disappointed.” Also another verse comes into mind, Ps.50:15 “I want you to trust Me in your times of trouble, so I can rescue you and you can give Me glory.” Our God is an amazing God and I pray that He heals you according to His plan and His purpose. Also please tell Tio Dave, Joci, and Joanna we all say hello, we love and miss you guys. God Bless!

Well Wishes From Cecilia Alvarez

To my Tia,

  I returned to work this morning, 7:30am. (YIKES!!) I got on the computer and I looked over to my left on my wall. My coworker and I always try to surround our selves with scriptures to encourage us and remind us that even we feel lonely or sad that He is there to help. But, one that I keep next to me remind me of you.

“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”
Hebrews 11:1

There are things we have not seen. But, these is hope. Attaaining these thigs will happen through Faith!!

I love you~ Ceci

New Growth

by Jocelyn Dias

Dear Mom,

I watered your plants today, inside and out.  How nice it was to hear the water flow from the hose.  I held my thumb over the spout a bit and let the water arch over the succulents in the yard, (they are yellowing without your attentive hand) and I was reminded of countless hours spent in the evening through dusk with you and dad washing the car and attending to the yard while I rode around on my roller skates or bike and Annie played with sidewalk chalk and a jump-rope.

I miss you, Mom, and I can’t wait to celebrate your return home to your yard and the ‘Peaceful Garden’ Dad has named “Wisteria.”

Jocelyn in Wisteria

I was pleased to see Wisteria today.  There is a sunflower blooming in the center pot that is usually on the upper deck.  The Jade is deep green and plump.  The bamboo I gave to you because I under-watered it, is shooting nicely, and I repotted the pink roses you received while still on the 14th floor.  Everything waits for you to grace it with your radiant smile, Mom.  Especially the Ficus. 

The beautiful Ficus that once stood over eight feet tall in your living room, which because of over-fertilization, is half the height it was. 

Remember when it first showed spots on the leaves and we wondered if it was over-fertilized?  You rinsed the roots and repotted it several times before you had to prune it back significantly and send it to recovery in Wisteria.

It has new leaves, Mom.  It’s recovery is slow.  It comes and goes with the temperature changes, strong and weak breezes, hydration, fertilization, sunshine and fog.  But it IS coming back.  Although not very visible at first, gradually, it is returning to its splendor after the trauma it experienced.  I can’t wait for you to come recover in Wisteria, Mom.

You are the Lords.  Do not be afraid. 

Matthew 6:27-34
27Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?  28"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Deuteronomy 31:8
The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”

Joshua 1:9
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”

2 Chronicles 20:17
You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the LORD will give you, O Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face [amyloids] tomorrow, and the LORD will be with you.’ “

Psalm 46:10-11
10 “Be still, and know that I am God;
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth.”

11 The LORD Almighty is with us;
    the God of Jacob is our fortress.
    Selah

:::::NOTE:::::
[Selah (Hebrew: סלה) may be the most difficult word in the Hebrew Bible to translate. Selah is probably either a liturgico-musical mark, being held to be a variant of “shelah” (=“pause”); or an instruction on the reading of the text, something like “stop and listen”.  Alternatively, Selah may mean “forever”.]

Well Wishes From Sandy Sutton

Dave:  I had lunch with John Evans and John Grover today and learned of Irene’s circumstances.  My wife Pam and I will be praying for you, Irene and the family.  I would like to include Irene on our church prayer list with your permission and, ask that blood be donated in Irene’s name.  My wife and I belong to Modesto Covenant Church.

Sandy

Well Wishes From Bill Fernald

Hi Dave-

It’s so difficult to read about this situation that Irene is in.  Just seeing her healthy “inspiring” smile in the photo makes me ask the question why.  But then again, she is such a remarkable person that I know God will use all of this to bless countless people across the globe.  Patrice and I are praying for Irene and for your family.  God is our provider and healer!

Ron Demolar and I talked today and we’re getting the word out.  Ron has posted the information and we’ll both be sharing about Irene at staff meetings we run.  I’ll capture almost 20 key management and leadership staff (which then reaches all other staff) & Ron will reach the entire summer staff.  We’ve printed the instructions on how to give locally so that the blood (and platelet) will be credited to Irene at UCSF.

We’ll also be praying for her as a staff and as family.

We love you all.  Tell Irene and the girls that Patrice and I said hello.

Bill

Well Wishes From John Price

Dave:

Thanks for sending me this link.  I didn’t know anything about any of this.  I have prayed daily for your sweet wife…

Please express our concern for her, and our commitment to pray for Irene.  She is one of the sweetest women I have ever met in my life.

John

Well Wishes From Paul and Jacque Cauwels

Dear Irene and Dave,

A few verses from Psalm 84 to enourage your hearts today:  “Blessed is the man (and woman) whose strength is in You, whose heart is set on pilgrimage.  Passing through the Valley of Weeping, they make it a place of springs; the early rain also fills the pools with blessings.  They go from strength to strength increasing in victorious power; each of them appears before God in Zion. . . . For the Lord God is a Sun and Shield; the Lord bestows present grace and favor and future glory (honor, splendor, and heavenly bliss)!  No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. O Lord of Hosts, blessed is the man (or woman) who trusts in You (leaning and believing on You, committing all and confidently looking to You, and that without fear or misgiving)!”

Paul and I continue to pray for you.

Jacque

Well Wishes From Robyn Edwards

Dave,
I just found out about your wife.  I don’t know if you knew but I lost my husband four years ago this past April — he was a truck driver and was killed in a semi-truck accident.  We had 22 wonderful years together and three awesome sons and two beautiful granddaughters.  What I wanted to tell you is that the only way I got thru that (and still today) is with the Lord’s help.  My faith in God is what has kept me and my family going day by day and sometimes hour by hour.  I want you to know that my prayers are with you and your family to give you peace and your wife comfort thru these trying times.  Your family is so beautiful!!

God Bless….....

Monday, June 11, 2007

Well Wishes From Larry Hall

After reading many of the other well wishes and the updates on Irene’s health status, I think what a great testament to the Dias Family and network of amazing friends that are so filled with God’s love and faithfulness to His Word. 

Joyce and I want to add our love and prayers to each of you, but especially to Irene.  We know that at a time like this, it’s so hard to know what God’s plan is, only time will reveal that. But, in the mean time it’s clear to me that Irene is surrounded in prayer on a constant basis with the full trust that God is in control. Dave, I still remember the scripture verses to told me to focus on when you discipled me to accept the Lord about 13 years ago. I think they apply very well to this situation:  Prov. 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”

Our Merced Friday morning men’s group are all praying for God’s healing hand to cure Irene from this rare disease.

With love and peace in Him,

Larry & Joyce

Ps. I will be looking into donating blood from our local blood bank tomorrow.

Well Wishes From Mark Schwenne

Dear Irene, I hope this email gets to you as I am not very computer savey…It took me a while and hope this works as I want to send you my heartfelt love and prayers as I heard of your illness Irene…I am sure this makes no sense and wonder why me….You might even at times question God’s love and comfort which are all normal…I know there isn’t any pefect thing to say but want you to know that you are never alone as the Holy Spirit is in all of this and nothing suprised Him..  I pray you may come to understand why God allowed you to have this disease and how you may use this to advance His kingdom to your family, friends and strangers alike…  Dear Lord, please comfort Irene as only you can, give her renewed strength to fight the good fight, take the medications, follow the procedures and come out the other end of this trial even stronger.  Keep her eyes on you dearest Jesus and may she never lose faith, love or the hope she has within.  Help her to be an encouragement to her family as they watch, unable to physically help her and only able to do the most important thing of prayer..Answer her prayers and that of Dave her family God and may she rise up one day soon to use this experience to bless even more people than she already has.  Yes Lord, hold her close to you, warm her with your Spirit, give her a smile of confidence on her face and say to you, thank you for not giving me anything more than I can bear…I ask for this in the powerful Name of Jesus our Savior.  Amen…Irene I will try to keep updated on your situation so I can pray specifically for you..

Dave I am praying for you to as I know it is hard for a can-do guy like yourself not to be able to help your wife as you would desire…Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you..

Sincerely Yours, Mark Schwenne

Well Wishes From Price and Nancy

We are ceaselessly praying for your whole family.  The time that we spend in prayer for you is giving us an even greater intimacy with both the Lord and with you as we pray. 

Our God can heal.  You have such a public testimony of faith that I watch with eagerness as to how HE will weave this very difficult chapter of your life into the story that will be used to draw others in need to their Heavenly Father.

May your faith continue strongly….know that love and prayers surround you!

Love from Atlanta,
Price and Nancy

Update From Dave

Hello friends and family,

It’s almost 6 p.m. on Monday evening.  Irene is in dialysis as I write this update.  Even though she is now in Oncology, she has had a rough day… extreme fatique and can only stand from the sitting position with significant assistance. 

Tomorrow she faces a surgical procedure to “install” a new catheter called a Tesio.  This will replace the Quinton catheter.  The Tesio is a more permanent port which will be placed under her collar bone and will be used for more dialysis.  Doctors would not give us a date for starting the chemo therapy as they want her to grow stronger first….

Irene’s brother David flew in from Virginia on Saturday to donate blood.  Her niece, Cecelia, drove to SF yesterday from L.A. and donated blood today.  She’s driving back now…Simply amazing.  Other family members and friends are also donating.  We can’t thank you enough;  her life depends upon it!!!

Irene and Family

Irene and Family

Irene is determined to beat the odds and wants to get to the chemo therapy asap!! 

God is LOVE and faithful; He never changes; we can depend on Him to be near us and in us during this difficult journey.  His Word comforts us.  Thank you for all of the scriptural references being sent to us in well wishes and emails.  It is very meaningful and I read everyone of them to Irene.  Mark Joseph’s two young daughters sang “Mighty Fortress” to Irene over the telephone several days ago… from the mouth of babes for sure… because HE is our Fortress…

Thanks to all of you who are visiting the “Donate Blood for Irene” section of the website.  We’re hopeful that an abundance of blood will be donated for Irene and others in need of this precious commodity. 

Brennan Manning wrote a book called “Ruthless Trust” which was recently given to Irene.  I have been reading it because she hasn’t been able to do so because of her blurred vision.  Manning talks about trust being “ruthless” because it is a bold act… to trust God in the most trying of circumstances.  We’re endeavoring to do just that, no matter what the outcome is, and no matter what God in his sovereignty decides to do.  We’re asking in faith for His divine intervention…and we sense His presence in our midst because we gather in His Name…

Dave
Gal 2.20
Is 48.17