Hello Dave and Irene,
It sounds to me that your faith is really being tested especially Irene.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you Irene, Dave and the girls.  Just know there are many who are praying for you and your swift recovery..  May God Bless you and your family.

Irene know that I say the rosary for you daily and ask the Blessed Mary to help you in your time of need.  It sounds that you have great support from your beloved husband and beautiful grown-up daughters. 

What Frank has done I bet has been a God sent to you and your family because you need to know that we all love and are thinking of you.  May your guardian angels be with you always.
Love from us Rich, Stephanie and Dieter